We live in a time where the majority of people on dates met their date online, and when it comes to online dating Tinder is one of the go-to apps for just about everyone.
Despite the minimal options and input required to use Tinder, the majority of profiles I’ve looked at are making one, or many, mistakes. This article focuses entirely on the pre-message stage: before you can try to close, you need to first make a connection. When it comes to making that first connection there are only a few factors you need to consider. Continue reading “How to be Successful on Tinder: Fixing Your Profile” »
Everyone knows nice guys finish last, but how can you start winning the girl without have to become something you’re not?
One of the biggest struggles I had when I was younger, and a common issue other men approach me with, is losing your bid to win the girl for being “too nice”. Instead of throwing your hands in the air and complaining how girls only like assholes, it’s time to start solving the problem, and giving the girls a reason to choose you instead.
The solution isn’t becoming something you’re not, being a nice guy is a great thing to be. The truth is that being nice was never your problem. Continue reading “For the “Nice” Guys: How to Finish First” »
There is a lot of advice out there for men, but for one group of men who have never really had any success with women, none of that advice seems to be of much use.
So it’s for you, men, I dedicate this to the zeros.
Going from zero to hero has been everyone’s favorite story since the start of stories, and they all start out the same way. Our hero is a man who feels utterly defeated. Whatever hope he may still have for himself left walled off, knowing thinking like that only leads to misery. He can tell you every reason why he can’t, or won’t, and in a state like this it’s no wonder advice like “just be confident” or “just be yourself” doesn’t really do a damn bit of good.
Continue reading “For the Hopeless: How to Start Having Success with Women” »
Everywhere you go there are girls looking to be picked up. You have a choice to make: be the man to do it, or be the boy who watches others have all the fun.
There are shelves full of books written on exactly how to do this, and some of them are really great, but when it comes down to the fundamentals there are really only five things you need to do to start taking girls home. Your job is to captivate, entertain, and intrigue. This is how you do it. Continue reading “Five Quick Tips for Picking up Girls” »
Any time you are communicating with another person, you are actively trying to manipulate them in the process. This sounds terrible, but that’s only because you’ve only ever heard the word used a negative context before.
When you communicate you are doing it with a purpose, you’re trying to achieve something. For most people this is a primarily unconscious act, especially when the goal is something small such as asking a stranger what street you’re on. In this case you’re being direct and open about your goal, and the stranger is almost always willing to be manipulated into giving up this information. We call it being polite, but all politeness really is, is the willingness to be manipulated without restraint.
The first thing you need to truly understand, is that manipulating people is not wrong in of itself. But always use your powers for good, not evil.
Continue reading “How to Manipulate People” »