Everyone knows confidence is the key to success, but when you don’t have the level of confidence you would like you need to learn how to fake it.
It’s a bit of a paradox: to be confident you must be successful, but to be successful you must be confident. The key to breaking the paradox is in one simple truth you need to hold dear; no one knows what is going on inside your head. Simply put, no one can know if you are confident or if you are just good at faking it.
If you want to have success talking to and picking up women, you are going to need to learn how to fake confidence until you are brimming with it. One easy way to do this is to focus on just one aspect of the whole game: making strong moves. Continue reading “How to Fake Confidence: Make Strong Moves” »
Any time you are communicating with another person, you are actively trying to manipulate them in the process. This sounds terrible, but that’s only because you’ve only ever heard the word used a negative context before.
When you communicate you are doing it with a purpose, you’re trying to achieve something. For most people this is a primarily unconscious act, especially when the goal is something small such as asking a stranger what street you’re on. In this case you’re being direct and open about your goal, and the stranger is almost always willing to be manipulated into giving up this information. We call it being polite, but all politeness really is, is the willingness to be manipulated without restraint.
The first thing you need to truly understand, is that manipulating people is not wrong in of itself. But always use your powers for good, not evil.
Continue reading “How to Manipulate People” »
There was a time where it felt shameful to admit you met your partner online, that time is long passed. Everyone knows someone who has had success with online dating, and with internet being a staple for modern life online dating has quickly become common place.
If you’re still on the fence the only reason you need is this:
If you increase the number of ways someone can meet you, you will increase your chances of finding a soul mate.
While the goals are the same, meeting someone to have some form of relationship with, the actual methods and details of online dating are slightly different than in the wild. There are advantages and disadvantages to both. We will explore these briefly before getting into the keys for online dating success. Continue reading “Online Dating Tips for Men” »
One of the most common questions men pose to me, in both real life and through this blog, is how to go out and pick up women.
The phrasing isn’t always so elegant, but whether you’re asking me “how do I get laid?”, “How do I get a girlfriend?” or simply “how do I pick up a girl?” the core of the question is identical: you want to connect with a female and build a relationship. Continue reading “How to Get a Girl” »
You’ve made all the right moves, been cool and taken your game to new heights. The girl is so turned on she’s forgotten her own name and you’re in control of your emotions; now it’s time for the main event.
Everything we talked about in part 3: the true importance of foreplay, is every bit as true and important for the main event as it is in the coming attractions. Remember to keep your cool and pay attention to what you’re doing, and how she’s reacting.
Few girls will actually tell you what’s going on, so you’re going to have to get your cues from her body language. Pay attention so you know where you’re at and how you’re doing. While foreplay was all about building anticipation and longing, sex is all about bringing it all together with a strong finish. Continue reading “Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.5): Sex Tips and Tricks for Men” »