Five Quick Tips for Picking up Girls

Five Quick Tips for Picking up Girls

Everywhere you go there are girls looking to be picked up. You have a choice to make: be the man to do it, or be the boy who watches others have all the fun.

There are shelves full of books written on exactly how to do this, and some of them are really great, but when it comes down to the fundamentals there are really only five things you need to do to start taking girls home. Your job is to captivate, entertain, and intrigue. This is how you do it. Continue reading “Five Quick Tips for Picking up Girls” »

How to Manipulate People

How to Manipulate People

Any time you are communicating with another person, you are actively trying to manipulate them in the process. This sounds terrible, but that’s only because you’ve only ever heard the word used a negative context before.

When you communicate you are doing it with a purpose, you’re trying to achieve something. For most people this is a primarily unconscious act, especially when the goal is something small such as asking a stranger what street you’re on. In this case you’re being direct and open about your goal, and the stranger is almost always willing to be manipulated into giving up this information. We call it being polite, but all politeness really is, is the willingness to be manipulated without restraint.

The first thing you need to truly understand, is that manipulating people is not wrong in of itself. But always use your powers for good, not evil.

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Online Dating Tips for Men

Online Dating Tips for Men

There was a time where it felt shameful to admit you met your partner online, that time is long passed. Everyone knows someone who has had success with online dating, and with internet being a staple for modern life online dating has quickly become common place.

If you’re still on the fence the only reason you need is this:

If you increase the number of ways someone can meet you, you will increase your chances of finding a soul mate.

While the goals are the same, meeting someone to have some form of relationship with, the actual methods and details of online dating are slightly different than in the wild. There are advantages and disadvantages to both. We will explore these briefly before getting into the keys for online dating success. Continue reading “Online Dating Tips for Men” »

How to Get a Girl

How to Get a Girl

One of the most common questions men pose to me, in both real life and through this blog, is how to go out and pick up women.

The phrasing isn’t always so elegant, but whether you’re asking me “how do I get laid?”, “How do I get a girlfriend?” or simply “how do I pick up a girl?” the core of the question is identical: you want to connect with a female and build a relationship. Continue reading “How to Get a Girl” »