For the Girls: How to Find a Good Man

For the Girls: How to Find a Good Man

You’re tired of falling for men who take you for granted, who mistreat you and make you feel ordinary: you’re tired of being hurt. Here’s how to avoid these land-mines.

I recently got an email from a female reader asking for advice on what a “real man” looks for in a real woman. She wanted to know how to avoid putting herself in the same depressing situation as her last few relationships. She wanted to know how to get back hope, and faith, in men.
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Words Matter: Speak with Purpose

Words Matter: Speak with Purpose

Whether you’re having a casual conversation, interviewing for a new position or trying to get laid, people’s opinion of you and your worth is shaped in a large part by the way you communicate.

While body language and actions are anything but trivial, the words you use, and the words you don’t, are paramount for forming the perception of your personality.

While it’s impossible to fake an extensive vocabulary, the good news is your vernacular isn’t the most important part of this process. Despite this fact you should find time to read novels regularly. They will make you a better writer, speaker and reader. Reading will make you more knowledgeable and if you find the right book for your mood it’s incredibly entertaining and rewarding.

The larger your vocabulary the more tools you have at your disposal, but having all the tools in the world is useless if you don’t pick the best one for the job, and then get to work. Some of the best handy work in the world has been done with little more than a hammer and duct tape. It’s not about what you have, but about how you use what you do. Continue reading “Words Matter: Speak with Purpose” »

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.5): Sex Tips and Tricks for Men

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.5): Sex Tips and Tricks for Men


You’ve made all the right moves, been cool and taken your game to new heights. The girl is so turned on she’s forgotten her own name and you’re in control of your emotions; now it’s time for the main event.

Everything we talked about in part 3: the true importance of foreplay, is every bit as true and important for the main event as it is in the coming attractions. Remember to keep your cool and pay attention to what you’re doing, and how she’s reacting.

Few girls will actually tell you what’s going on, so you’re going to have to get your cues from her body language. Pay attention so you know where you’re at and how you’re doing. While foreplay was all about building anticipation and longing, sex is all about bringing it all together with a strong finish. Continue reading “Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.5): Sex Tips and Tricks for Men” »

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.4): How to Last Longer

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.4): How to Last Longer


Without a doubt the most commonly sought male sex advice is the very question men are too ashamed to ask: how to last longer in bed.

Men are funny, the two most common issues they have with sex (other than not being able to get it), are polar opposites of each other. On one hand you have men who are just too excited to last more than a few seconds (premature ejaculation). On the other you have men who are so bored with their partner or just too damn stressed to get it up (erectile dysfunction).

Dealing with ED is simple; just pick one or more of the three options:

  1. Spice things up with your current partner
  2. Find someone new who actually turns you on
  3. Take a pill

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Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.3): The Importance of Foreplay

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.3): The Importance of Foreplay


You’ve made your move and shifted from hanging out to getting it on. Everything you’ve done has been leading up to this point; if you want to be the best lay she’s ever had it’s time to get to work.

On the surface the importance of foreplay seems obvious, but many guys in their excitement greatly underestimate just how important it can be. As a guy you’re often ready to go before the starting gun has even been raised. The worst thing you can do as a guy is false start. Escalating too high too soon is a surefire recipe for disaster.

On top of the obvious, there are a whole bunch of goals you need to accomplish with foreplay which you have probably never quantified. Being the best lay she’s ever had starts here.

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