For the Girls: How to Find a Good Man

For the Girls: How to Find a Good Man

You’re tired of falling for men who take you for granted, who mistreat you and make you feel ordinary: you’re tired of being hurt. Here’s how to avoid these land-mines.

I recently got an email from a female reader asking for advice on what a “real man” looks for in a real woman. She wanted to know how to avoid putting herself in the same depressing situation as her last few relationships. She wanted to know how to get back hope, and faith, in men.
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How to Fake Confidence: Make Strong Moves

How to Fake Confidence: Make Strong Moves

Everyone knows confidence is the key to success, but when you don’t have the level of confidence you would like you need to learn how to fake it.

It’s a bit of a paradox: to be confident you must be successful, but to be successful you must be confident. The key to breaking the paradox is in one simple truth you need to hold dear; no one knows what is going on inside your head. Simply put, no one can know if you are confident or if you are just good at faking it.

If you want to have success talking to and picking up women, you are going to need to learn how to fake confidence until you are brimming with it. One easy way to do this is to focus on just one aspect of the whole game: making strong moves. Continue reading “How to Fake Confidence: Make Strong Moves” »

How to Date More than one Girl at a Time (and not be an Asshole)

How to Date More than one Girl at a Time (and not be an Asshole)

Let’s make this clear right off the start: this is not a guide on how to cheat. If cheating is what you’re looking to do stop reading; you’re not welcome here.

Additionally, you’re not going to find an essay debating and describing various relationship models. I am not trying to convince anyone to adopt one model over another, the choice is up to you and the people you are involved with.

The final caveat is this: Not everyone is willing/able to embrace and enjoy alternative lifestyles. You’re dealing with a lifetime of propaganda, beliefs, dreams, drama and scar tissue. Before you consider dabbling in this world you need to have a very serious and honest conversation with yourself. You’re dealing with emotions, your own and those of the girls. Just like the standard relationship model, things aren’t always going to work out, and people are going to get hurt.

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Online Dating Tips for Men

Online Dating Tips for Men

There was a time where it felt shameful to admit you met your partner online, that time is long passed. Everyone knows someone who has had success with online dating, and with internet being a staple for modern life online dating has quickly become common place.

If you’re still on the fence the only reason you need is this:

If you increase the number of ways someone can meet you, you will increase your chances of finding a soul mate.

While the goals are the same, meeting someone to have some form of relationship with, the actual methods and details of online dating are slightly different than in the wild. There are advantages and disadvantages to both. We will explore these briefly before getting into the keys for online dating success. Continue reading “Online Dating Tips for Men” »

How to be a Man: Handle your Shit

How to be a Man: Handle your Shit

The world, and more importantly its women, is not interested in wasting its time on the games of boys; if you want to be successful you need to be a man. One of the largest parts of being a man comes down to one simple concept: handle your shit.

There is nothing wrong with being a boy, full of hope, innocence and awkwardness. But as soon as you want to be taken seriously in matters of importance you need step up your game. While I never thought I would quote the bible on this blog (or in any other walk of life) Corinthians said it best.

When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

-(1 Corinthians 13:11 – King James)

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How to Get a Girl

How to Get a Girl

One of the most common questions men pose to me, in both real life and through this blog, is how to go out and pick up women.

The phrasing isn’t always so elegant, but whether you’re asking me “how do I get laid?”, “How do I get a girlfriend?” or simply “how do I pick up a girl?” the core of the question is identical: you want to connect with a female and build a relationship. Continue reading “How to Get a Girl” »