Whether you’re having a casual conversation, interviewing for a new position or trying to get laid, people’s opinion of you and your worth is shaped in a large part by the way you communicate.

While body language and actions are anything but trivial, the words you use, and the words you don’t, are paramount for forming the perception of your personality.

While it’s impossible to fake an extensive vocabulary, the good news is your vernacular isn’t the most important part of this process. Despite this fact you should find time to read novels regularly. They will make you a better writer, speaker and reader. Reading will make you more knowledgeable and if you find the right book for your mood it’s incredibly entertaining and rewarding.

The larger your vocabulary the more tools you have at your disposal, but having all the tools in the world is useless if you don’t pick the best one for the job, and then get to work. Some of the best handy work in the world has been done with little more than a hammer and duct tape. It’s not about what you have, but about how you use what you do. Continue Reading…

There was a time where it felt shameful to admit you met your partner online, that time is long passed. Everyone knows someone who has had success with online dating, and with internet being a staple for modern life online dating has quickly become common place.

If you’re still on the fence the only reason you need is this:

If you increase the number of ways someone can meet you, you will increase your chances of finding a soul mate.

While the goals are the same, meeting someone to have some form of relationship with, the actual methods and details of online dating are slightly different than in the wild. There are advantages and disadvantages to both. We will explore these briefly before getting into the keys for online dating success. Continue Reading…

One of the most common questions men pose to me, in both real life and through this blog, is how to go out and pick up women.

The phrasing isn’t always so elegant, but whether you’re asking me “how do I get laid?”, “How do I get a girlfriend?” or simply “how do I pick up a girl?” the core of the question is identical: you want to connect with a female and build a relationship. Continue Reading…

You’ve made all the right moves, been cool and taken your game to new heights. The girl is so turned on she’s forgotten her own name and you’re in control of your emotions; now it’s time for the main event.

Everything we talked about in part 3: the true importance of foreplay, is every bit as true and important for the main event as it is in the coming attractions. Remember to keep your cool and pay attention to what you’re doing, and how she’s reacting.

Few girls will actually tell you what’s going on, so you’re going to have to get your cues from her body language. Pay attention so you know where you’re at and how you’re doing. While foreplay was all about building anticipation and longing, sex is all about bringing it all together with a strong finish. Continue Reading…

Without a doubt the most commonly sought male sex advice is the very question men are too ashamed to ask: how to last longer in bed.

Men are funny, the two most common issues they have with sex (other than not being able to get it), are polar opposites of each other. On one hand you have men who are just too excited to last more than a few seconds (premature ejaculation). On the other you have men who are so bored with their partner or just too damn stressed to get it up (erectile dysfunction).

Dealing with ED is simple; just pick one or more of the three options:

1. Spice things up with your current partner
2. Find someone new who actually turns you on
3. Take a pill

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You’ve made your move and shifted from hanging out to getting it on. Everything you’ve done has been leading up to this point; if you want to be the best lay she’s ever had it’s time to get to work.

On the surface the importance of foreplay seems obvious, but many guys in their excitement greatly underestimate just how important it can be. As a guy you’re often ready to go before the starting gun has even been raised. The worst thing you can do as a guy is false start. Escalating too high too soon is a surefire recipe for disaster.

On top of the obvious, there are a whole bunch of goals you need to accomplish with foreplay which you have probably never quantified. Being the best lay she’s ever had starts here.

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In part one of the Best Lay series we discussed the importance of accepting yourself, now it’s time to learn how to make some moves.

Firstly, let me set the record straight. Truly accepting who you are isn’t something many people can do overnight. It’s a long process, and you’re just going to have to take it one step at a time. The goal is to keep moving forward, and refusing to let the world’s shit pull you down.

Once you’ve started to feel confident with who you are it’s time to start having some real fun.

Note: The remainder of these articles is written assuming you’re anything but submissive. While there’s nothing wrong with being submissive, it’s not a role which requires much advice; other than knowing how to do as you’re told.
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Men spend more time thinking about sex than anything else in life. Everything we do, think and say is in an effort to have it or have more of it; it’s the one thing which defines us all as men.

Strangely though, men never really talk about sex. We talk about women, what we have done and want to do with them, but we never really talk about the actual act of sex. Sure you’ll regale your buddies with stories of conquests, often including the finer details of the most prolific moments, but when it comes to issues, strategy and advice men are typically tight lipped.

The problem is this: every man wants to put forth the image of having the golden cock. We all want to believe that no girl has ever had what we can bring, and we’re ashamed of coming up even a touch short.

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Regardless of who you are, or what you’re into, I can pretty much guarantee you’re familiar with the base ten female rating scale.

The problem with this scale is every man has created his own definition of what each number represents. This is somewhat understandable as one man’s 2 can be another man’s 10. This is a quirk of life we should all be thankful for as every time a guy takes a dive we not only pull the grenade from the game, but it’s just one less guy to usurp in the field.

For this reason alone, any guy happily out hogging should be left to do so in peace. While you might not want to see your buddy leave with Jabba the Hut, he’s doing a service to everyone else in the game. Plus if that’s what gets him off, who are you to deprive him?

If you’re one of these men, then this scale is not for you personally, but as a point of reference to be used when talking to other Men. Nothing will label as an outcast quicker than claiming Rosie O’Donnell as the top of your celebrity fuck list.

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