How to Run a Proper Poker Homegame Part 1: The Setting

How to Run a Proper Poker Homegame Part 1: The Setting

There’s much more to spreading a poker game than getting together some friends and a deck of cards, here’s the first in a three-part guide for everything you need to know.

This guide is divided into three articles: the setting, what you need, and what you need to know. All three of these elements are crucial to hosting a strong poker game. You don’t need to be perfect on all of them, but if you miss the mark on too many items the game is going to run into issues.

The success of your homegame greatly depends on the setting. You don’t need to be renting a floor at the Ritz, but you do need to have your bases covered. Continue reading “How to Run a Proper Poker Homegame Part 1: The Setting” »

For the Hopeless: How to Start Having Success with Women

For the Hopeless: How to Start Having Success with Women

There is a lot of advice out there for men, but for one group of men who have never really had any success with women, none of that advice seems to be of much use.

So it’s for you, men, I dedicate this to the zeros.

Going from zero to hero has been everyone’s favorite story since the start of stories, and they all start out the same way. Our hero is a man who feels utterly defeated. Whatever hope he may still have for himself left walled off, knowing thinking like that only leads to misery. He can tell you every reason why he can’t, or won’t, and in a state like this it’s no wonder advice like “just be confident” or “just be yourself” doesn’t really do a damn bit of good.

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A guide for having consistently great sex

A guide for having consistently great sex

When most people talk about good sex (or blog about it), they all seem to completely ignore one of the most important parts of it: how to maintain consistently great sex. How to always have great sex, even after having been together for years.

I had never really thought to write about it until a client of mine asked me for advice on how to keep his sex life great. We have all had good sex, and we have all had bad sex. But the worst thing that can happen is when you find someone with whom you have great sex, only for it to eventually grow dull. If you are a man it is your job to work your ass off to make sure this never happens. Continue reading “A guide for having consistently great sex” »

How to be a Man: Stop Thinking like a Boy

How to be a Man: Stop Thinking like a Boy

For the majority of us, our teenage years were spent in the pursuit of trying to be, think, and act cool. Unfortunately, a lot of the decisions we made are holding us back in our adult life.

The hardest part about shedding these boyish thoughts is identifying them in the first place. You have lived with these ideas, preferences, and preconceptions for so long they just feel normal, they feel right. The problem is when you made these choices, you were a naive child. You had no idea what you were doing in life, and were in no place to be making decisions for an adult man. Continue reading “How to be a Man: Stop Thinking like a Boy” »

Dominance and Devotion: How to Run a Relationship

Dominance and Devotion: How to Run a Relationship

Relationships don’t drive themselves, someone has to wear the pants and make sure things run smoothly and keep moving forward.

To be clear, it doesn’t matter who is wearing the pants in a relationship, just as long as they wear them well. There is no advantage to ‘the man’ always being the one in charge, but as a man it is your responsibility to make sure someone is behind the wheel. If your relationship is without a driver, it’s your job to step up and take control.

The first thing you need to understand to wear pants well, is what you need, and what you want, from your relationship. Continue reading “Dominance and Devotion: How to Run a Relationship” »

How to be a Man: Eight Easy Rules

How to be a Man: Eight Easy Rules

Men come in all different shapes and sizes, and while every man is unique the definition of what it is to be a man is relatively constant.

The most important quality a man can encompass is the will and ability to handle his shit, which is why I have written an article dedicated to the concept. With this one out of the way we’re left with eight more important traits every man should posses. Continue reading “How to be a Man: Eight Easy Rules” »