Relationships don’t drive themselves, someone has to wear the pants and make sure things run smoothly and keep moving forward.
To be clear, it doesn’t matter who is wearing the pants in a relationship, just as long as they wear them well. There is no advantage to ‘the man’ always being the one in charge, but as a man it is your responsibility to make sure someone is behind the wheel. If your relationship is without a driver, it’s your job to step up and take control.
The first thing you need to understand to wear pants well, is what you need, and what you want, from your relationship. Continue reading “Dominance and Devotion: How to Run a Relationship” »