Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.5): Sex Tips and Tricks for Men

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.5): Sex Tips and Tricks for Men


You’ve made all the right moves, been cool and taken your game to new heights. The girl is so turned on she’s forgotten her own name and you’re in control of your emotions; now it’s time for the main event.

Everything we talked about in part 3: the true importance of foreplay, is every bit as true and important for the main event as it is in the coming attractions. Remember to keep your cool and pay attention to what you’re doing, and how she’s reacting.

Few girls will actually tell you what’s going on, so you’re going to have to get your cues from her body language. Pay attention so you know where you’re at and how you’re doing. While foreplay was all about building anticipation and longing, sex is all about bringing it all together with a strong finish. Continue reading “Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.5): Sex Tips and Tricks for Men” »

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.4): How to Last Longer

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.4): How to Last Longer


Without a doubt the most commonly sought male sex advice is the very question men are too ashamed to ask: how to last longer in bed.

Men are funny, the two most common issues they have with sex (other than not being able to get it), are polar opposites of each other. On one hand you have men who are just too excited to last more than a few seconds (premature ejaculation). On the other you have men who are so bored with their partner or just too damn stressed to get it up (erectile dysfunction).

Dealing with ED is simple; just pick one or more of the three options:

  1. Spice things up with your current partner
  2. Find someone new who actually turns you on
  3. Take a pill

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Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.3): The Importance of Foreplay

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.3): The Importance of Foreplay


You’ve made your move and shifted from hanging out to getting it on. Everything you’ve done has been leading up to this point; if you want to be the best lay she’s ever had it’s time to get to work.

On the surface the importance of foreplay seems obvious, but many guys in their excitement greatly underestimate just how important it can be. As a guy you’re often ready to go before the starting gun has even been raised. The worst thing you can do as a guy is false start. Escalating too high too soon is a surefire recipe for disaster.

On top of the obvious, there are a whole bunch of goals you need to accomplish with foreplay which you have probably never quantified. Being the best lay she’s ever had starts here.

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Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.2): Making your Move

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.2): Making your Move


In part one of the Best Lay series we discussed the importance of accepting yourself, now it’s time to learn how to make some moves.

Firstly, let me set the record straight. Truly accepting who you are isn’t something many people can do overnight. It’s a long process, and you’re just going to have to take it one step at a time. The goal is to keep moving forward, and refusing to let the world’s shit pull you down.

Once you’ve started to feel confident with who you are it’s time to start having some real fun.

Note: The remainder of these articles is written assuming you’re anything but submissive. While there’s nothing wrong with being submissive, it’s not a role which requires much advice; other than knowing how to do as you’re told.
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Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.1): Acceptance

Be the Best Lay She’s Ever Had (Pt.1): Acceptance


Men spend more time thinking about sex than anything else in life. Everything we do, think and say is in an effort to have it or have more of it; it’s the one thing which defines us all as men.

Strangely though, men never really talk about sex. We talk about women, what we have done and want to do with them, but we never really talk about the actual act of sex. Sure you’ll regale your buddies with stories of conquests, often including the finer details of the most prolific moments, but when it comes to issues, strategy and advice men are typically tight lipped.

The problem is this: every man wants to put forth the image of having the golden cock. We all want to believe that no girl has ever had what we can bring, and we’re ashamed of coming up even a touch short.

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